Revenge on girlfriends, a great post
Always be attentive when she talks, and ask random questions every now and then. However, don't be judgmental about anything as it is the last thing the woman will be accepting from you. Make her feel comfortable, and try to find out reasons for her actions and reactions. After you ask questions about her, talk about yourself, how she feels about you?. You can start by asking questions about imaginary situations; what would happen if I react unexpectedly, and what if I become jobless?.